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Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by FelipeDussan on Wed 5 Oct - 17:30

Sometimes at this points of our lives we think that we have met the love of our lives, sometimes can be true, sometimes it is just an illusion. Also you can Fall in love at first sight, and during the relationship have some breaks, but you know he/she is really the one for you, and that is person you want to be with, the rest of your life.
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Post by Megan Reátiga on Wed 5 Oct - 17:37

I don't think love at first sight is real, because it only represents physical attraction.
“If you believe in love at first sight, you will never stop looking.” Closer (2004; directed by Mike Nichols)
Falling in love with someone takes more time than just a couple of seconds, since the personality can't be seen. It has to be discovered by knowing better the person.
People who are in love with love are the ones that believe in love at first sight, because the desesperately want it to happen to them.
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Post by 9AIvanGuerrero on Wed 5 Oct - 18:54

I think love at first sight dont exist, its just a simple attraction we have to someone which in a period of days can become love, but the idea of love at first sightis stupid, love is elaborated, you have to feel it and you cannot wait to see one person and come
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by manuela8 on Wed 5 Oct - 19:09

I don't believe in it, as you may get in love with the person's physical characteristics, but not with his/her personality. I only believe in constructed relationships, for which you fight, and really get involved with.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by Marianamonroy00 on Wed 5 Oct - 21:47

I believe that love at first sight is a very vague and utopic concept as it is imposible to actually fall in love for someone so easily. You might believe the person you just saw is very attractive but it will no go further than that "connection" you made. You can only know if that person is "the one" if you have spent a significant amount of time of your life with them and if you are able to see the light in all of their darkest sides , "the one" will never stab you in the back , will always protect you and will always love you unconditionally.


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Post by DanielaACookies9A on Wed 5 Oct - 21:49

Marianamonroy00 wrote:I believe that love at first sight is a very vague and utopic concept as it is imposible to actually fall in love for someone so easily. You might believe the person you just saw is very attractive but it will no go further than that "connection" you made. You can only know if that person is "the one" if you have spent an significant amount of time of your life with them and if you are able to se a little light in all of their darkest sides , "the one" will never stab you in the back , will always protect and will always love unconditionally.

I totally agree with ypu, love, the real love is something more than just a phisic attraction, so to love you must know the person, share with him or her, discover that person, but you can`t know this just seeing a person, so I thing love at first sight does not exist, is just an attraction

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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by sofiamoreno on Wed 5 Oct - 21:54

I don't believe in love at first sight , i think that to love someone you need time no know him and understand what kind of person is it . Not only the psychical part is important , what really matters is how is the heart of that person.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by lilipaez on Wed 5 Oct - 22:01

FelipeDussan wrote:Sometimes at this points of our lives we think that we have met the love of our lives, sometimes can be true, sometimes it is just an illusion. Also you can Fall in love at first sight, and during the relationship have some breaks, but you know he/she is really the one for you, and that is person you want to be with, the rest of your life.
I believe in all of that things, if you know met someone and you have a beautiful relationship but at the end of months you break up, but a healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves, and if that person is the correct in any moment of your life that person will apear again because some people are destined to be together.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by lauramoscoso on Wed 5 Oct - 22:06

I think that love is a word too strong that you can't use when you see someone for the first time; nevertheless, I do believe that when we meet someone and you get the feeling that they will mean something to you, it's certainly a possiblity.

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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by 9AUrbinaJuan on Wed 5 Oct - 22:09

Loving is something that may be different for each person in the world, but I am sure that the love at first sight is not real, the fact that you see a person and you are attracted, is not the same as feeling and loving every part of a human being. When you are in love with someone, you love both the good and the bad things, but when you first see a person you cannot ensure that every thing about him/her is going to be good for you, for falling in love you need to know that person, in every aspect.

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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by 9BJuanitaGutierrez on Thu 6 Oct - 6:44

I believe in attraction at first sight, but not in love at first sight because love is something that has to be build, it doesn't come from nowhere.
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Post by 9BJuanitaGutierrez on Thu 6 Oct - 6:44

I believe in attraction at first sight, but not in love at first sight because love is something that has to be build, it doesn't come from nowhere.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by 9APaula on Wed 19 Oct - 14:50

I don't believe in love at first sight. Love is not only physical attraction, is much more than that. Loving a person is loving every thing about him or her even their mistakes and imperfections. Loving someone is caring and supporting that person not matter what happens. That is why for my it shouldn't be call love at first sight, it should be attraction at first sight, that is when is seems pretty to you. Loving is requires a lot of things, you can not love someone you just met.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by Cristian Gonzalez 9D on Thu 20 Oct - 10:07

9APaula wrote:I don't believe in love at first sight. Love is not only physical attraction, is much more than that. Loving a person is loving every thing about him or her even their mistakes and imperfections. Loving someone is caring and supporting that person not matter what happens. That is why for my it shouldn't be call love at first sight, it should be attraction at first sight, that is when is seems pretty to you. Loving is requires a lot of things, you can not love someone you just met.

I agree with you because for me real love has to be constructed, it begins much of the times with fiscal attraction but also can be without this attraction love has to be constructed with a person for several days, is not a easy process but if you really want it you make that this process it also can cost an arm and a leg but for me love worth it because is the best fealing a person can have.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by IsabellaGarciaG on Sun 23 Oct - 12:19

I believe you can feel attracted to someone from the moment you see them. Think that you like them. But even you could start a relationship based on that thought, it demands many more things for the relationship to work.
Because love is not only liking someone, but being with that person and enjoying time with him/her. Doing things for them. And wishing and doing the things you know they like. Love is a decision you take every day.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by juancamilobustosg on Sun 23 Oct - 13:27

I don't. You can vertainly have an attraction but the ball is in your court when you want to fall in love. I explain myself, when you feel attraction is only you who decides to go ahead and make that attraction pure love because you only fall in love when you are attracted by the outside and concious of the inside. I love you
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by sara_24 on Sun 23 Oct - 13:42

It's one of those believed Relationship Myths. What's real is attraction at first sight, which may or may not grow into love later. We can’t know if we love someone just by seeing them from across a  room; we can’t know we are meant to be with someone after ten minutes of meeting them. When you get to know a person, you don't have enough trustfulness to show your real personality, so you don't really know how the other person is. You can't get in love with a person that doesn't show who he or she really is.

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Post by Valeconstain on Sun 23 Oct - 15:36

I don't believe in love at first sight, it is not much than a simple attraction between two people, real love is something that takes time to build up. You can't get in love with someone you have barely seen only once in your life, Love at first sight it is just an myth, it is just physical attraction, and real love is way more that just liking how the other person looks like, it is accepting the other with their defects, with their mistakes and their past.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by analuciaa11 on Sun 23 Oct - 21:02

I believe in attraction at first sight, when you see a person who looks attractive then maybe you would like to meet him or her, that happens almost in all cases. And then after knowing each other and going out for a time you can get to love that person.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by Juan Sebastián Peña 17 on Mon 24 Oct - 0:15

Someone can like a person because of it physical attributes and they can begin a relationship, but it is more important to find someone you really understand with. Being with someone you struggle to be with can be one of the worst pains ever.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by LauraCastaneda99 on Mon 24 Oct - 1:35

I myself have never experienced this before, but physical appearance does play a big role when building relationships. I'm not saying that looking is more important than personality traits and inner qualities but if he/she is not attractive from the outside, I think you won't sense that special feeling of wanting to get to know him/her better at the first place.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by Sofía Rosso on Mon 2 Oct - 19:25

I don't believe in love at first sight, due to the fact that for me a relationship is based on values not on looks, and for that time is a must so you can see if you are really compatible with each other.

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Post by carlacastro on Mon 2 Oct - 23:44

Sofía Rosso wrote:I don't believe in love at first sight, due to the fact that for me a relationship is based on values not on looks, and for that time is a must so you can see if you are really compatible with each other.

I totally agree with your opinion, because when people refer to 'love at first sight' it is really an attraction at first sight and nothing beyond that. I believe that is impossible to love someone that not only you don't know, but you have seen only once in your whole life. Love is something that builds up with time, patience and effort, not something that pops up out of nowhere just because you saw a pretty girl or a handsome boy.
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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by Paulagabriel on Tue 3 Oct - 9:43

I do believe in love at first site, I think that love gets difficult in life but it's possible, I think when you find with the help of God that love you really feel it, you feel you know it since ever and have a real connection between them. Is important to have love doors open in order to receive it.

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Re: Do you believe in love at first sight?

Post by esstebanser123 on Tue 3 Oct - 9:55

Not, love is something that developed with time, when you see a person and say it's love at first sight is actually just for aperiance, since to love someone you have to know that person, know how he or she really is, know how would they be with you, love is not a game, and you should not treat ir as if it was at all

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