How woud you react if your BFF results to be gay/lesbian?

I would try to help him the most, because if he/she has been there for a long time helping me in most of the situations, that would be the exact moment to prove that is really a true frinedship.

I will support it, and guide him. Help him/ her to talk to his/her parents. I will not judge him. And I will help him getting some dates.

FelipeDussan wrote:I will support it, and guide him. Help him/ her to talk to his/her parents. I will not judge him. And I will help him getting some dates.

I think that the most difficult part is talking to the parents, and as you say, the idea for he/she is to know that there will be always someone that will support them.

I've had many inside issues in what concern to the LGBT community, I wouldn't really like to find a pair of guys or girls making out in the middle of the street, I would feel very uncomfortable and the same with heterosexual couples. Since a beginning my family have tried to teach me specific values guided by the bible and in those 'lessons' they told me that lesbians and gays are not part of our catholic society, they persuade me that they are sinners and I shouldn't hang out with anyone who I think is not heterosexual. Even though I still don't love or agree 100% with this community, I decided that I will have my personal point of view independent of what my family think. In the case one of my best friends is lesbian or gay, I can only support them. I love them no matter what they are but who they are with me, not depending on society's classifications they are the most important persons in the world to me and I wouldn't risk losing them just because of my comfort. If one of them is gay or lesbian, I will try to change my mind and accept them, I won't lose them, I will stay by their side as they do when I'm down, I will still love them no matter their flaws, like they love me independently of all my faults.

I would accept my friend just as he/she is. The fact that he could be gay or lesbian would make my friend even more unique. However we are not allowed as society to criticize someone for their likes each person should be accepted just how it is and should have support not only from a friend but from all the society.

I would not see any problem with it because if he or she is my BFF is because I trust in him or her and also he o she has always be there when I need guiding, an adivine or even a scold.

I would love her/him a bit more and aprove his/her sexuality without any kind of trouble.

I will completelly accept her/him because they need someone they can trust in 100%, and i will help him/her during the proccess of acceptance so that they dont make a mistake

I will support her but probably I wouldn't invite her again to a pijama party.

Pablismo wrote:I would try to help him the most, because if he/she has been there for a long time helping me in most of the situations, that would be the exact moment to prove that is really a true frinedship.

I think that i would support her, i would talk to her and like say that i respect her likes, and that she can count with me.

Her or him sexuality does not affects our relationship, so I will support him and help him to pass all difficulties that he face, and stay with her/him.

It would be very impacting but I would accept it, the sexuality of my friend should no affect the relationship. I am not homophobic and with my friend less.

Even if is not my BFF, everyone deserves respect and support for things that are so important for life.

Even though my friend is gay or lesbian, that doesn't have to affect our relation. A friend is a friend no matters the sexuality, what actually matters is that he or she can count on me and me on him or her. I will have to accept how she or he is off course I will defend them. Also I will encourage them to not have shame do what they like and be with them in their darkest moments. Is like a normal human, but since the society has make us see them as not normal we see that reaction weird.

I will support my best friend because the meaning of friendship is to be there for your friend when they need you, not matter if he or she is gay/lesbian. This would not change all the good moments and the friendship, because it is supposed to be something external and you need to accept your friends how they are

If my best friend decides to let the cat out of the bag and confess she/he is lesbian/gay I would support her or him over everything, because that is he meaning of frienship, I wouldn't mind if that person is attracted to a different or the same gender, they are people and we must respect that and as their friends it is important we demostrate our support and making them know they will never be alone and that they can trust us everything, because we are their friends and true friends will always be there for each other.

If my BFF is lesbian I would be happy for her , I will never judge her o say something bad about that . I will love her anyway because I don't care what she likes , she will still be the same person.