Would you forgive your boyfriend/girlfriend if he is not faithful (loyal)?

Personally if I find out that my boyfriend has been seeing other person in a romantic way, I would be caught into two stools. Because first if you are with that person is because you love and care about them, so it is not easy just to cut the relationship. On the other hand, it is very possible that he or she does the same over and over again.
What do you think? Would you cut the relationship or will you forgive them?

9APaula wrote:Personally if I find out that my boyfriend has been seeing other person in a romantic way, I would be caught into two stools. Because first if you are with that person is because you love and care about them, so it is not easy just to cut the relationship. On the other hand, it is very possible that he or she does the same over and over again.
What do you think? Would you cut the relationship or will you forgive them?

It is just manner of dignity and self-estee or respect.

9APaula wrote:Personally if I find out that my boyfriend has been seeing other person in a romantic way, I would be caught into two stools. Because first if you are with that person is because you love and care about them, so it is not easy just to cut the relationship. On the other hand, it is very possible that he or she does the same over and over again.
What do you think? Would you cut the relationship or will you forgive them?

"True love forgive cheating" is a stupid thing. I prefer to stay another 19 years alone more than be with someone who cheated on me. Is where dignity appears.

They say that true love always forgives, but the thing is that true love never betrays. If someone really loves you, he or she would not cheat on you, because that's why they decided to be in a relationship, if someone chooseses one person they have to quit to the rest. To be with someone who doesn't love me the way it's supposed to and doesn't respect me nor the relationship I prefer to be alone

analuciaa11 wrote:They say that true love always forgives, but the thing is that true love never betrays. If someone really loves you, he or she would not cheat on you, because that's why they decided to be in a relationship, if someone chooseses one person they have to quit to the rest. To be with someone who doesn't love me the way it's supposed to and doesn't respect me nor the relationship I prefer to be alone

You are in the right thing, if someone decided to be with you, why it is necessary to be unfaithful? If someone lied to you is showing the lack of respect it have to you, he or she is demonstrating to you that you are insignificant

9APaula wrote:Personally if I find out that my boyfriend has been seeing other person in a romantic way, I would be caught into two stools. Because first if you are with that person is because you love and care about them, so it is not easy just to cut the relationship. On the other hand, it is very possible that he or she does the same over and over again.
What do you think? Would you cut the relationship or will you forgive them?

Forgiveness is something that comes very in with every person, but in my opinion a person who is not loyal to me, and I'm not talking only about relationships, doesn't deserves to talk to me.

analuciaa11 wrote:They say that true love always forgives, but the thing is that true love never betrays. If someone really loves you, he or she would not cheat on you, because that's why they decided to be in a relationship, if someone chooseses one person they have to quit to the rest. To be with someone who doesn't love me the way it's supposed to and doesn't respect me nor the relationship I prefer to be alone

I agree with you Ana Lu, and I believe that if someone loves you don´t hurts you, but I believe in second chances because we all can make one mistake, and sometimes people change towards a situation, so I believe that we all need an oportunity

It really depends on how the relationship is going on, like how much time you have been together, the trust you have, and those kinds of this. If you discover that your romantic partner is being unfaithful,the ball is in your count because you can decide if you forgive him or her and try to move on, decide that it was just too much and you can't go on no matter hop what he or she says.

"The one who really loves will never betray" even if the person who betrayed you will try to change I can tell people rarely do change. Forgiving is good and I recommend you to do it to have no harsh feelings but just because you love them and forgive doesn't mean you're still in love with that person.
Always forgive , never forget.

I think that if you are the really mature to handle a relationship with someone, is because you are capable of leaving everything and give your best to make her and yourself happy and complete, without the necessity of looking for anyone else, in other words, to be loyal. A relationship is just of 2, not less and neither more. If the person who you consider your love partner is cheating on you, is because she doesn't love you. You may love her a lot, but you do not have to lose your dignity for staying with her. Maybe you should forgive, dependes on how you take the treason, but as many people say, you should not forgive for your sake.

I think someone that cheats their partner does not love them that much, because if there is really love in a relationship neither the boy or the girl would cheat, I know if an opportunity is presented it is really difficult to get out of it, temptation does its work and it's totally a challenge to pass through this but it is not impossible to avoid, and it's really really satisfying when you realize you've passed unbeaten through that temptation.

The most important thing that a girlfriend needs is being loyal to tha couple. Your girlfriend or boyfriend should give you the insurance that he or she would be always with you and only with you and that even though he or she has more friends that would never cut through the feelings they got.

Loyalty is for me the most important think to maintain a relationship. Being loyal is not passing all the time with your couple, being loyal refers that you will always be for that person not matter what happens to support and love them when they most need it. It has nothing wrong passing time with other people if you never leave behind your partner or couple.

I think the only way of showing your couple you love him/her is being inconditional with love and if they cheat on you is because they are tired of you so you should not forgive him, it is a matter of dignity, and loving yourself more than others

analuciaa11 wrote:They say that true love always forgives, but the thing is that true love never betrays. If someone really loves you, he or she would not cheat on you, because that's why they decided to be in a relationship, if someone chooseses one person they have to quit to the rest. To be with someone who doesn't love me the way it's supposed to and doesn't respect me nor the relationship I prefer to be alone

I fully agree with you, If you love someone so much why would you ever think of cheating? If you commit to a person you'll have to be 100% available to them, and all of your attention is for them not to anybody else.

No, because if he cheats on me one time how can I be sure that he wouldn't do it again? Being loyal isn't an obligation when you are in love, it is a pleasure.

9APaula wrote:Personally if I find out that my boyfriend has been seeing other person in a romantic way, I would be caught into two stools. Because first if you are with that person is because you love and care about them, so it is not easy just to cut the relationship. On the other hand, it is very possible that he or she does the same over and over again.
What do you think? Would you cut the relationship or will you forgive them?

First, if that person is in a relationship with you is because they love you, and they dont need anything else because you have it all, and you dont love someone who cheat on or plan to cheat on. Keep the "i love you" out of your mouth and save it for that one person you would never risk losing you for just one good night. when that person starts to see another person is because he or she dont feel that with you have all that he or she needs, in my case i will cut the relationship because at the end i couldn't give all what he needed, because being in a relationship isn't about the kissing, the dates, or the showing off. It's about being with someone who makes you happy in a way that no one else can.

I think i would forgive that person, but things would never be the same. there would be a lack of trust always and who wants a relationship like that. Forgiveness is always the best option, it brings freedom to your heart; however, thinking about getting back with that person would be hard and i don't think i could be able to do it.