Be objective: Money is a great inluence on relationships?

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I think money is necessary in relationships because for everything you want to do with your couple you will need to afford it. You will also need to buy him/her presents. However you should not choose your soulmate based on his/her financial status. And you should learn to enjoy time with little money. Cook! walk! practice some sport.. Just some ideas friends!

In my opinion money is the last thing in which you should think at the moment of having a relationship. Money is not really something important when you love someone. Yes you need the money but some other thing have more crucial.

sofiamoreno wrote:In my opinion money is the last thing in which you should think at the moment of having a relationship. Money is not really something important when you love someone. Yes you need the money but some other thing have more crucial.

But Sofia, you should take into account that the world we live in requires money and intelligence to achieve things. Without money, you wan't be able to mantain a mentally healthy relationship.

I think that money does not affect relationships because when you start a relationship you do not think in What could that person buy you instead you see how this person could help you in different problems or how this person could make you a better person.

A relationship should be based on feelings. Obviously, nowadays money is an important factor, but I don't consider it essential. You shouldn't depend on anyone, you should be independent and have your own resources. I don't need someone to maintain me.

I think that like in everything money is important but is not a reason to leave your significant other since there are many solutions like selling things together or saving up. You should not see a person through her or his wallet since money is ephemeral and feelings stay forever

Of course money is an influential aspect on a relationship but, as always, there are certain exceptions. There will always be couples which will love each other no matter what, literally for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health until death do them apart; however, there are also relationships based on money: when there's money, there's stability but when they are lacking of money the will be also lacking of love. Many times it happens that either the boy or the girl get attracted by the other's money, if he/she is rich it will be an important factor to attract people. Now, if both of them fall in love later it will be a fortunate case but most of the times that does not happen.

Well if you are with a person that only want material things, it is will influence, but if the in relationship any of the two matters about money, it would not influence, because in a relationship the important things are that special moments that you have with that person, i think that a cute message, an unexpected call or visit to your house are does little ditails that make a change, and for making that you don't need money. So the only thing that matters is the love that each other feels.